Keep the love on! Dating wardrobe essentials

Dating wardrobe is so important!  You want to know that you look good, you want to FEEL confident, sexy.  You want to know that walking into a room, everyone is looking at you (in the good way).

I work often with Smart Dating Academy, helping professional men and women rock their dating wardrobe, and I once heard Bela (owner) tell one of her clients “You’re still dating your husband when you’re married!  It’s just different.

I loved that- because really don’t we want to feel confident all the time?  Marriage shouldn’t give us a pass to get lazy with our looks. Keep the love on!

But most importantly, you’ll need these essentials if you’re entering or re-entering the dating game.


1. Undergarments: a t-shirt bra is a great neutral that will blend well. Please- if you have not been fitted, it is so important!

2.Dresses: find your best fit: wrap dresses are universally flattering or a v-neck style.

a. Neutral transition- day to evening (especially if you just need to take a jacket off and it suddenly transforms)!

3. Tops

  • a. Neutral cardigan or jacket
  • b. V-neck in best color suited for you
  • c. Unique top that can pair with denim or skirt
  • d. Tanks (my favorite are James Perse)

4. Bottoms

  • a. Skirt: Neutral transition
  • b. Dark denim- have one really nice go-to pair!

5. Accessories

  • a. Skinny belts (belt at skinniest part of waist; directly underneath ribcage)
  • b. Nude shoe- immediately elongates your legs!
  • c. Black purse
  • d. Red lip instantly transforms your look!

What are your dating wardrobe essentials?


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